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SFTU before you make that assumption Bob!
SFTU by charsawbeez May 28, 2018
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Guy 1: Man, sftu
Guy 2: *stfu
sftu by nlolhere July 8, 2020
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SFTU #SFTU
Seek First To Understand, before being understood.

A motto to live by.

Coincidentally, it is a play on the acronym stfu, which is used in inverse situations: when you dismiss someone.
"How can that guy believe that? I'm going to tell him he's wrong and I'm right."
- "Why? Do you want to wave your superiority over them?"
"Of course not! I want them to see what I see!"
- "Then sftu."
"Huh?"
- "Seek first to understand, before being understood."
sftu by absolutely_not_a_weeb April 22, 2025
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