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Running the Community Gauntlet

A form of social punishment where an individual is subjected to mass judgment and condemnation by an entire community they once belonged to. Running the Community Gauntlet typically occurs when someone violates community norms, expresses an unpopular opinion, or becomes the target of a coordinated campaign. The experience involves being argued against by multiple members simultaneously, receiving hostile messages, being publicly shamed in community spaces, and ultimately being ostracized or expelled. Unlike public social media gauntlets, community gauntlets happen in spaces where the victim had relationships, history, and belonging—making the betrayal deeper and the trauma more profound. The community that was once home becomes a source of relentless attack, and the victim must either endure, leave, or be forcibly removed.
Running the Community Gauntlet Example: "She'd been a forum member for seven years, knew everyone, trusted them. Then she expressed a nuanced opinion that didn't fit the community's line. Suddenly she was running the community gauntlet: old friends arguing with her, moderators issuing warnings, private messages turning hostile. The community she'd called home became a hunting ground. She left, but the wounds remained."
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Running the Community Gauntlet

A form of social punishment where an individual is subjected to mass judgment and condemnation by an entire community they once belonged to. Running the Community Gauntlet typically occurs when someone violates community norms, expresses an unpopular opinion, or becomes the target of a coordinated campaign. The experience involves being argued against by multiple members simultaneously, receiving hostile messages, being publicly shamed in community spaces, and ultimately being ostracized or expelled. Unlike public social media gauntlets, community gauntlets happen in spaces where the victim had relationships, history, and belonging—making the betrayal deeper and the trauma more profound. The community that was once home becomes a source of relentless attack, and the victim must either endure, leave, or be forcibly removed.
Example: "She'd been a forum member for seven years, knew everyone, trusted them. Then she expressed a nuanced opinion that didn't fit the community's line. Suddenly she was running the community gauntlet: old friends arguing with her, moderators issuing warnings, private messages turning hostile. The community she'd called home became a hunting ground. She left, but the wounds remained."
Fogey/fogy /fougi/ sl. (early 18C+, orig. Scot) old-fashioned, stuck-in-the mud.
Person with old fashioned ideas which he is unwilling to change: Come to the disco and stop being such an old fogey!
You think me an old fogeyand an old tory, his thoughtful voice said. I saw three generations since O’Connel’s time. I remember the famine. Do you know that the orange lodges agitated for repeal of the union twenty years before O’Connel did or before the prelates of your communion denounced him as a demagogue? You fenians forget some things. (James Joyce, Ulysses. Penguin Books,1992. p. 38)
fogey by Petyush September 14, 2005
Word of the Day on May 31, 2026
Add a tablespoon of jarlic to two teaspoons of butter and spread it in bread to make garlic bread
Jarlic by YSAC fanboy June 6, 2020
Word of the Day on May 30, 2026
An armpit enthusiast — typically of the scent, appearance, and touch of hairy underarms.
That dude’s such a pitpig, I have to wear deodorant to keep him at bay.
Pitpig by wimbledon May 28, 2026
Word of the Day on May 29, 2026

You the birthday

You the birthday-you the point, you the topic, the reason we here, can be used as a compliment / u looking good or silly/trolling
Nah fr, you the birthday, you got all the attention.
You the birthday by Dev-in April 4, 2026
Word of the Day on May 28, 2026

church hurt 

church hurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the church hurt that was inflicted on me as a child.
Word of the Day on May 27, 2026