Praemiseris

Etymology (why it works)
• prae- (Latin): before, in advance
• miseris (from miseria): sorrow, grief, suffering

Together:

“Before the sorrow.”

Not ending life, not seeking death —
choosing to go first so another never enters grief.

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Definition

Praemiseris (noun / verb)

The deliberate wish to pass before a loved one,
so they are spared the burden of grieving you.

Usage
• “He loved her with praemiseris — not fear of death, but fear of her pain.”
• “It wasn’t despair. It was praemiseris.”
• “To carry praemiseris is to love without demanding survival.”

by The creator of inamantom December 26, 2025