ONLY the coolest thing a person could possibly do. Playing for keeps requires the totalmanipulation of one's surroundings to further accentuate their own.
church hurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the church hurt that was inflicted on me as a child.