Noun: One who chronically flatters and
people-pleases in a misguided attempt to make
people feel good about themselves.
PanderBears often give those around them an unwarranted sense of safety, trust and dependence.
PanderBears are not malicious, but rather
fear not being liked by others so they go out of their way to make those around them feel good at any cost.
"When I pointed out the herd of models that had just walked into the bar, and mentioned how I wished I could
dump some of the 20 pounds I had gained onto just one of them so she could be a normal girl, he
said to me, 'Please, you'
re still the hottest girl in this place. Everyone is checking you out, not them.' He is such a PanderBear, but I love it!"