A kyanh is someone who is willing to throw hands at any moment and would beat you. They are also the pretty best friend and probably are dead and broken inside.
church hurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the church hurt that was inflicted on me as a child.