A lengthy process in which a
guy inadvertently becomes the best friend of a girl he is in
love with. The girl, usually driven by her inexhaustible need for attention, is solely to blame for this unfortunate occurrence as she constantly teases her helpless guy friend. The
guy will usually think that a mutual liking has developed between the two, when in
reality the girl is just using him for various reasons including money, free stuff, and self-esteem boosting
hook-ups, in essence making the guy her bitch. Being Kayleed is almost impossible to prevent so
don't be too hard on yourself if it happens to you. However, once you realize that you'
ve been Kayleed it is important that you "stick it to that skank" (literally and metaphorically) by growing some balls and no longer succumbing to her skanky ways.