A gay waiter easily recognized by the way he talks, behaves, his gestures, and specific gay attire. This kind of waiters often flirts with male restaurant guests and/or is arousing interest in them.
some one who hates on gays; one who doesnt like people who act gay and or things that are to gay
we were supposed to go to a gay dance club and then some one said no way i dont want to go because it is gay and i say stop being a gayter and just have fun ,why hate because it is gay