An ultimatum to a sexual partner that they must either engage in anal sex or find another partner or lover. This may be done as an ugly but effective way to end a
relationship regardless of whether or not the
instigator really craves anal sex, as the other party may be unwilling to engage in it even at the cost of the
relationship.
Her: You've seemed distant lately; what's wrong?
Him: Our sex life; it is unsatisfying.
Her: What can I do to
please you?
Him: Pack fudge or pack your bags.
Her: What?
Him: You
heard me. Give up that
cornhole or find someone else.