Che'd (shây-ëd) 

VERB: To Che, or, To BE Che'd
* Variant: Chet, Bucky

**To be manipulated for a decade or 3, by one who convinces you they are your best friend. To find out you were being used or manipulated for whatever you had to offer, esp. Un-willingly

**To be a sucker, aka: a dupe
Aka: a nice, trusting person who has been used by the same Che for a decade or more. Once you've been Che'd it is common to find others in your life behaving similarly

DESCRIPTIVE:

Any nice, too-trusting, person, that was 'friends' (the Che-ee, or the person that was Che'd) with a covert narcicisst/leech, the Che, or Che'er), for multiple decades, only to later find out after it is all over, that the Che was overtly and covertly stealing from, even in very miniscule ways.
It ideally takes the Che-ee to be young and too trusting, as they are used and taken advantage of for so long.

*Primarily finacially and emotionally, and time-wise.

A Che will look a chance to memorize your personal information, down to your Social Security #. The Che-ee's name, during run-in's with authorities, is used if they don't want to use their own identity, as it is heavily tainted with hidden legal issues.

Che's are without any real empathy, regret, or. remorse. A Che is VERY comfortable digging thru your stuff when you're gone.

*The Che covets EVERYTHING, down to the Che-ee's very identity*

Che'd (shây-ëd)
"I trusted my childhood friend with all my stuff and they robbed me."

- "You were Che'd "

Che'd (shây-ëd) by anonymous August 19, 2022