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its when someone is on someone super tough, checkin em out, wanting to holla at em but won't.. but makes it obvious so that person will come talk to them instead.. basically jockin' someone, crushin on em..
Terrell was chillin at the club lookin good and hella bitches were starin at him, choosin... wanting to talk to him, but all acted scared.
choosin by Angela January 4, 2005

choosin bitches 

when you keep ur bitches as a priority over ya niggas
big jaffy is never choosin bitches, that’s why his niggas love him
choosin bitches by yummymonee February 1, 2019

Insta'Choosin 

to choose on instagram; , To like or comment on multiple pictures of a person that you want to get to know on a person level OTHER than instagram.
-Girl you insta'choosin like shit get off his page.

- Friend 1: What you doin?
Friend 2: Girl shit in the house, Insta'choosin & Twatchin.
Insta'Choosin by ReneePiink August 15, 2012

You Be Choosin' 

Phrase yelled by African Americans to imply that other people are using racial slurs. Usually involves a crouched stance and finger pointing while exclaiming said phrase.
Cool Guy, Tough Dude, Fro-Man, and 'Cuz are standing in a group talking, and are approached by Spicer.
The 4 in the group. - "Hey Spicer"
Spicer - "YOU BE CHOOSIN', YOU BE CHOOSIN', HE BE CHOOSIN', 'DEY BE CHOOSIN', THOSE GUYS OVA' DERE BE CHOOSIN'. YOU ALL BE CHOOSIN!!!"

Choosing 

When a person has multiple options (dating) and picks based on the current or momentary want, need, time or circumstance. Often times, the choice is based on a material (when women are choosing) or sexual (when men are choosing) gain.
Tasha, you know I’ve been wanting to take you out but you stay choosing and entertaining other men.
Choosing by YogagODDess December 4, 2020

choosing fee 

the amount of money a prostitute gives her pimp upon the contractual agreement (most of the time verbal) in order for the arrangement to proceed.
"i stole your bitch, and she done paid me the choosing fee of $5000, and she starts this evening"

"in order for you to embrace this pimpin', ho, you need to pay the choosing fee"
choosing fee by notcaptsaveaho September 29, 2012