Ball Busting Sodamite Share definition Flag A derogatory term used to describe someone who is clearly and openly homosexual. ''Oh look Elton John is on telly''''Not that ball busting sodamite'' Ball Busting Sodamite by DonkeyDick2 July 23, 2012 0 0 Get merch Get the Ball Busting Sodamite mug. Buy Now — $32.95 See more merch