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A manipulative tactic that expands the classic DARVO pattern (Deny, Attack, Reverse Victim and Offender) by adding an initial step: Accuse. In ADARVO, the perpetrator first accuses the target of wrongdoing—often fabricating or exaggerating an offense—then proceeds to deny their own actions, attack the target for reacting, and finally reverse roles so that the original victim is cast as the offender. This tactic is common in online spaces like Discord and Reddit, as well as in modern political discourse, where the initial accusation frames the entire interaction. By accusing first, the manipulator sets the narrative, making any defense or counter‑response appear as aggression. The accusation serves as both a provocation and a pre‑emptive strike, ensuring that when the victim reacts, they are already positioned as the guilty party.
Example: “He posted a fake call‑out against her, then when she responded with confusion, he denied everything, attacked her tone, and reported her for harassment. ADARVO in action: accuse first, then DARVO.”
ADARVO by Abzugal March 25, 2026
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The most awesome and legendary person you will ever meet. He will always be there for you when the rain starts to pour, like he's never been before, but only because youre there for him too. He will only love the girl he will meet in the latter part of his highschool and he will never let go of that woman. He loves adventure and is very good in bed.
You can never be as good as an "Adaro".
adaro by Lunart August 22, 2017
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on a high from the prescription drug adderall
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Person 1: How do you stay so focused on your work all the time?

Person 2: Because I am on an adaroll

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person1: hey whats up?

Person 2: just adarolling
adaroll by The Hookah Kid October 28, 2009
Sexy, Handsome man . Cares about others feelings keeps everything real. If you ever meet and AD. Keep him because he’s the best out there .
I love adarion
adarion by Shfgfhdf December 10, 2021
A handsome young man that wants to live the life of christ, who wants to be like christ. He faces struggles but still manages to keep his faith, he has chosen to leave his old ways and go to God. He is one of a kind, if you lose him it's your lost , you lost a person that cares for you and prays for you.
Me: hey what your name
Adario: my name is Adario
Me: No wonder why your so God fearing and perfect
Adario by Your fave bestie March 23, 2025
Refers to some one who’s nonchalant or quiet
Look at him he so adarron
Adarron by Addy_zxc June 3, 2025
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