by sama April 28, 2003
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A person who's dominant in a relationship & is the receiving partner. Those who identify as one are commonly engaged in BDSM relationships as d-types (i.g. master, owner, daddy) with submissive partner(s). Dominant bottoms are best paired with submissive tops & may tolerate switch tops. In a 24/7 power exchange, the submissive top is their ideal.
This term can be synonymous with power bottom, based on the person's view of their identity.
A misconception of this identity is believed bottoms are submissive (psychologically) by default - stems from ignorance. No person is identical - in their preferences, identity & sexuality. Top & dominant are separate (& vice versa) - here's how. Top / bottom is the role of giving or receiving. Dominant / submissive is the role of authority or compliance. These two spectrums can be mix-matched like pizza toppings.
This term can be synonymous with power bottom, based on the person's view of their identity.
A misconception of this identity is believed bottoms are submissive (psychologically) by default - stems from ignorance. No person is identical - in their preferences, identity & sexuality. Top & dominant are separate (& vice versa) - here's how. Top / bottom is the role of giving or receiving. Dominant / submissive is the role of authority or compliance. These two spectrums can be mix-matched like pizza toppings.
MARK: What am I exactly? I enjoy being his bottom & having him do things for me, yet I’m the dominant in our relationship.
JEREMY: You’re a dominant bottom, Mark - & your top is submissive. You prefer being passive, ordering him around & he enjoys complying at your discretion.
MARK: What? I never thought of that.
JEREMY: Yep. Think of it as you’re the King sitting on the throne - & he’s your servant grooming you head to toe, running errands for you.
JEREMY: You’re a dominant bottom, Mark - & your top is submissive. You prefer being passive, ordering him around & he enjoys complying at your discretion.
MARK: What? I never thought of that.
JEREMY: Yep. Think of it as you’re the King sitting on the throne - & he’s your servant grooming you head to toe, running errands for you.
by ITERNO_X January 27, 2022
Get the DOMINANT BOTTOM mug.A chinese guy from the west midlands. Unordinarily tall, extremely handsome and funny, has the power, skill and prowess to beat most the people on the planet. The guy also has an extraordinarily large penis for an asian (2.3 inches) which just makes him even more amazing.
also pulls all the girls
also pulls all the girls
by jun.1g June 1, 2020
Get the Dominic Wong mug.by benth September 11, 2009
Get the dominant yorkie mug.A strapping young English actor. Lived in Berlin for much of his youth, therefore has the ability to speak German. Despite being extremely gorgeous, Dom has the unfortunate side effect of causing girls to stop breathing. Just think of his voice. You know what I'm talking about.
Dom was made famous from his role in the Lord of the Rings, but you can check him out this fall in ABC's new show, Lost.
Dom was made famous from his role in the Lord of the Rings, but you can check him out this fall in ABC's new show, Lost.
Um... and Dom? Ha-ha-ha. Dom. He likes to suck his thumb. It's true. Has he told you this? He has. He admits it. He's very good about that. So you know that. Is there anything you don't know about Dominic Monaghan. He can only fall asleep lying face down, which isn't even that interesting or funny, but it's the truth.
by Seisei May 28, 2004
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Opposite to Partnership Culture.
In a domination system...
Humans are flawed and dangerous.
Difference is equated with superiority or inferiority.
Power is used to control and destroy through hierarchies of domination.
Competition means "dog eat dog"; "every man for himself".
People cooperate to dominate others.
Huge gaps between haves and have-nots
Nature is a resource to be dominated, depleted and polluted.
Morality of insensitivity, control, and coercion.
(Based on the Center for Partnership Studies' summary of points from Riane Eisler's _The Power of Partnership_ and David Korten's _The Great Turning_)
Opposite to Partnership Culture.
In a domination system...
Humans are flawed and dangerous.
Difference is equated with superiority or inferiority.
Power is used to control and destroy through hierarchies of domination.
Competition means "dog eat dog"; "every man for himself".
People cooperate to dominate others.
Huge gaps between haves and have-nots
Nature is a resource to be dominated, depleted and polluted.
Morality of insensitivity, control, and coercion.
(Based on the Center for Partnership Studies' summary of points from Riane Eisler's _The Power of Partnership_ and David Korten's _The Great Turning_)
Dominator culture teaches all of us that the core of our identity is defined by the will to dominate and control others. We are taught that this will to dominate is more biologically hardwired in males than in females. In actuality, dominator culture teaches us that we are all natural-born killers but that males are more able to realize the predator role. In the dominator model the pursuit of external power, the ability to manipulate and control others, is what matters most. When culture is based on a dominator model, not only will it be violent but it will frame all relationships as power struggles.
(bell hooks)
(bell hooks)
by Grinning Cat March 28, 2013
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