by (¯'._.[Rogelio]._.'¯) June 17, 2008

to play up someone's ego i.e. to make them feel good about themselves for something not worth praising.
Like a porn fluffer but for one's ego. Often done by women to men.
Like a porn fluffer but for one's ego. Often done by women to men.
Zach, a grown-ass man: wipes the kitchen bench once.
Issy: "OMG Zach! You didn't have to do that, you're so helpful and amazing! You're a really good flatmate."
Issy is ego fluffing Zach.
Issy: "OMG Zach! You didn't have to do that, you're so helpful and amazing! You're a really good flatmate."
Issy is ego fluffing Zach.
by egofluffer1000 October 5, 2022

by Dogoncouch December 8, 2023

Cyber Fluffing—Verbally titillating someone’s ego and libido online, or another electronic communication;
in order to flirt with them and Hook-up with them!
in order to flirt with them and Hook-up with them!
Hey Babe, I really was cyber fluffing that hottie from OK Cupid— I think he wants a three-way with us!!
by Silverflight77 October 14, 2018

When you constantly stroke your own ego by bragging & showing off in an unsolicited manner or overly patting yourself on the back.
I didn't ask dude showed me his paycheck stubs but he was busy self-fluffing and just had to show me how much he makes...
by ODGumby23 February 11, 2021

Using an excessive preamble to set the stage and therefore manipulate for a simple, straightforward request. The person making the request is the fluffer and the recipient of the request or the person being fluffed.
"I know you're probably not going to like this and I most likely don't deserve it and I know I've promised to not ask again, especially since I just asked yesterday, but could I borrow the car for one more trip to town, whereas the person responds with, quit fluffing me.
by paperjam February 5, 2019

by BigGCount February 23, 2017
