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Slow Grind

Common Phrase for hard work and patience.

The Slow Grind is essentially the most important element in building a relationship with a girl. The Slow Grind is referred to as a tactical technique for getting a girl. It is key to not rush things, since this is assured to backfire on you. One must not rush into a relationship with a girl, but instead use the Slow Grind technique. Like any thing in life, one must work hard for it. (This is the grind component). Building off of this, things will most likely go in your direction if you are patient and optimistic.

You cannot expect glory in the blink of an eye. The ultimate goal of the Slow Grind is to succeed. With that being said, success comes with time and patience. That is why you must be cautious of your own actions toward a girl and not take things to the next level when it is not the time yet. For instance, if you like a girl and she appears to like you too, it wouldn't be a bad idea to make conversation with her and get to know her hobbies and her personality better. The bad move in this situation would be to invite her out with you if she doesn't even know you well enough yet. Us guys understand that girls are not prizes to be won or to be showed off to friends, but need to be treated with respect and kindness. To increase the chances of the Slow Grind working in your favor, take things slow and have a positive attitude.
Example 1: Guy 1: "Yo what's good homies." Guy 2: "Ayy not much, I'm just working on that slow grind." Guy 3: "Hell yeah dude!"

Example 2: Guy 1: "Yo are you going to get with that girl?" Guy 2 : "Bro, you already know that I'm on that slow grind."

Example 3: Guy 1: "Why don't you make a move already?" Guy 2: "I figured it would be better if I use the slow grind." Guy1 : "Good choice man!"
by Yowhat'sgood-S October 18, 2017
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grinche

Yvonne: I think it's kind of weird that there isn't a word for the opposite of a smile. I'll call it a "grinche".
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the grinder

What some people call using the shower; usually a quick one.
{Ella}: Cummon honey, it's almost time to go to work.
{Norm}: Just a few minutes Ella, I need to go through the grinder first.
by Telephony October 13, 2014
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Grit and Grind

A style of basketball that prioritizes getting steals and putting pressure on the ball handler when on defense and getting to the rim on offense. This was mostly popularized by the Memphis Grizzlies.
Guy 1: Hey, remember the old Memphis Grizzlies?
Guy 2: Yeah, I miss watching Zach Randolph and Tony Allen in their Grit and Grind style in the playoffs.
by LimitlessCapArtistHOF March 17, 2020
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Scissor Grind

The Scissor Grind is an athletic sexual position. The woman lays on her side with one leg in the air over the man's shoulder, and the man straddles her lower leg while he penetrates the her vagina. Their legs are like two open scissors. This spread-legged position permits deeper penetration of the penis, and gives the man the freedom to grind the base of his penis against the outside of the her vagina, thereby enhancing her sexual pleasure. By holding onto her raised leg the man has the leverage to thrust and grind with additional force and friction.
My girlfriend loves when we do the Scissor Grind. I dig it because I can look down on her amazing body while we're having sex, and I have a free hand to play with her tits, AND it feels great!
by Dr. Carey Perkins May 10, 2015
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Korean grind fest

An amalgamated phrase that defines a MMO game; designed, created, etc, by a Korean gaming cooperation, where the majority of gameplay involves repetitive and/or recycled tasks reiterating ad infinitum.

Using "Korean" in the phrase as a reference to Korean's cliché attribute of hardcore gaming, and their many releases of mmorpgs that implicate such gameplay.

Examples of Korean grind fest:
Silkroad Online
Maplestory
Sword Of The New World: Granado Espada
Boy-1: Hey check out this mmorpg my friend introduced to me, what do you think?

Boy-2: I've played it before, even though quests in this game would give you more experience than repeatedly killing the same foes over and over again, the quest still requires you to kill the same foe over and over again.

Boy-1: Oh, so it's just another Korean Grind Fest.
by Lawcork June 20, 2008
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grinding gear

grinding gear - noun
Pronunciation: (grind-ing gear)

Clothes women wear when they go out to the club or a party. Can usually be found at your local "Forever 21" store. Can sometimes can be mistaken as a synonym for "slutty attire". Makes most men lose their mind when they see a woman wearing one. Can also usually lead a man to buying a girl a drink at a club. Typically, women who wear it end up grinding some dude on the dancefloor in the club, hence the term.
"Hey girl! You can make a grown man cry with that grinding gear you got on. Let me buy you a drink!"

"Check out that chick by the bar. DAAAAMMMN! That grinding gear is complementing everything her momma gave her!"

"Girl, we going clubbin' tonight! Put on your best grinding gear and get ready to party!"
by XtremeNinjaXxX September 28, 2011
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