To "come out of the tox box" means to admit to being a pedophile.
"James got drunk yesterday and start saying what he most wishes he could do is tap a 7-year-old girl sometime."
"Damn, man, he decided to just come out of the toy box like that to you?"
Originally an emotional experience that is life changing, it has evolved to mean a serious argument, one that better result in a change of action or else.
My husband and I are going to have a "come to jesus" over this remodeling job.
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I'm going to have a "come to jesus" with that kid about his drinking and partying.
v. to pull a gun. A slangdown of "come out of the bag on;" derived from the fact that guns were sometimes carried in paperbags for purposes of concealment.
That chickenhead swung on Serena and Serena came out the bag on her.
He got hemmed up by five dudes and none of his boys were around, so he had to come out the bag.