A man who deliberately disrespects or degrades someone for the validation or approval of other men. This is common amongst men who are in gangs or about the street life and lack father figures.
1. This bench fassy yute only tried to come for me because his boys were around. SMH
2. Bench fassy men have low esteem and always seek validation from other men. It’s weird and creepy
2. Bench fassy men have low esteem and always seek validation from other men. It’s weird and creepy
by Arron j smith September 8, 2021

by Porkbench July 6, 2024

When a girl gets her period she is not allowed to go into the swimming pool. She still has to suit up but has to sit on the bench. Everyone knows she has her period.
by quartermoa August 18, 2016

by ilovelina October 22, 2023

When a group of guys cum on any surface i.e. a table of bench, then rub their dicks in the pool of cum and receive a blowjob
by Applebenchcrisp September 4, 2021

A term used in baseball and softball usually targeted towards a person who sits on the dugout bench for most of the game, for any reason, aka "warming up" the bench.
by EvanOmNomz April 15, 2023

GM 1: Yo what happened while I was locked, I heard * thought he was on badness
GM 2: Yeah bro we wet him up and now he’s benched
GM 2: Yeah bro we wet him up and now he’s benched
by Lawabidingcivillian June 27, 2024
