someone whose sexuality is complete only if composed of three distinct yet complementary aspects. These are the active masculine the passive feminine and the reconciling
neutral aspects. Only by accepting the third or neutral aspect, which is both/and as well as neither/nor feminine and masculine can one arrive at a sexuality where the
two opposite sides are fully integrated and thus reconciled in the third. This gives rise to a mature sexuality that allows for integrating hetero-erotic
homo-erotic and
auto-erotic orientations.