A person of any above description who "takes the lead" or is dominant in sexual situation. May or may not include S & M, fantasy role play or fetishes or servitude. May or may not want to be touched. Will initiate sex. If includes S & M, the top will be the one to do the bondage & pain play etc. to the bottom.
by dijjn June 04, 2003
Of Irish origin, meaning (for a male) to slide their hands up a woman's top and touch her breasts over her bra!!
Person 1: How far did you get at wezz? (disco)
Person 2: she let me top her
Person 1: Wow so you are in with the art of topping!
Person 2: she let me top her
Person 1: Wow so you are in with the art of topping!
by Ginger nerd..... :) September 17, 2011
by Mike March 05, 2005
by IbreathAir February 11, 2021
In homosexual encounters, the partner who prefers to do the penetration. There is no one typical personality attributed to these individuals beyond the preference to penetrate the bottom. Also known as the giver or the "guy" in the relationship. (the latter is generally used when attempting to describe preferred sexual rolls to unaware, unexposed, or ignorant breeders)
Son: Mom, I'm the top, don't worry about me.
Mom: So does that mean the guy or the girl??
Son: Ugh, mom, the guy.....*facepalm*
Mom: So does that mean the guy or the girl??
Son: Ugh, mom, the guy.....*facepalm*
by gayfratboi January 15, 2009
"I've been topped before"
by Thê Ãtømï¢ Þhrêäk December 25, 2004
someone high in status, usually in control or overpowering others. Used by admirers or friends, should not be used about yourself, or may be considered stush.
by ..... November 05, 2003