While toxic masculinity is direct, aggressive and loud, toxic femininity is more indirect, passive and quiet.
Toxic feminity is when a female passively, indirectly uses her sexuality, or excessive empathy, or woman card, or manipulative tricks to gain power/social status/money/attention or just to lead people to do something for her.
These will be done in a very passive, indirect, silent manner which makes it difficult to prove when confronted.
Examples:
1. Sexuality: (a) Indirect sexual teasing via texts or social media or touching others in a sensual manner. And when you say don't do it, their usual reply is: "I didn't intend that", "Why do you think like that", "felt something?" etc.
2. Excessive Empathy: (a) Crying furiously until you do something. (b) Faking emotions to get something.
3. Woman Card: (a) Blaming patriarchy for her incompetence.
4. Misc.: (a) Belittling others or shaming them out of jealousy. (b) Body shaming other females. (c) Constantly trying to one-up others even in casual sittings. (d) Gossip, smear campaigns.
It is done in a way that confronting, calling out, proving it becomes difficult and if you are a male then puts you in a bad light.
How to deal with them:
1. Avoid at all cost. If you have already got in deep then "passively" cut ties. By ignoring, keeping replies short and never asking them for something or initiating conversation.
2. They want you to fight back. So dont. Hold your dignity and move on, they hate it a lot.
Toxic feminity is when a female passively, indirectly uses her sexuality, or excessive empathy, or woman card, or manipulative tricks to gain power/social status/money/attention or just to lead people to do something for her.
These will be done in a very passive, indirect, silent manner which makes it difficult to prove when confronted.
Examples:
1. Sexuality: (a) Indirect sexual teasing via texts or social media or touching others in a sensual manner. And when you say don't do it, their usual reply is: "I didn't intend that", "Why do you think like that", "felt something?" etc.
2. Excessive Empathy: (a) Crying furiously until you do something. (b) Faking emotions to get something.
3. Woman Card: (a) Blaming patriarchy for her incompetence.
4. Misc.: (a) Belittling others or shaming them out of jealousy. (b) Body shaming other females. (c) Constantly trying to one-up others even in casual sittings. (d) Gossip, smear campaigns.
It is done in a way that confronting, calling out, proving it becomes difficult and if you are a male then puts you in a bad light.
How to deal with them:
1. Avoid at all cost. If you have already got in deep then "passively" cut ties. By ignoring, keeping replies short and never asking them for something or initiating conversation.
2. They want you to fight back. So dont. Hold your dignity and move on, they hate it a lot.
by netflexes May 6, 2020
Get the Toxic feminity mug.A young girl (usually between the ages of 16-21) Who became a feminist after she got a tumblr account. Commonly believes that all men are chauvinists even though they usually fuck any random neckbeard
by hiphop4real November 3, 2013
Get the tumblr feminist mug.A girl (or boy, but generally a girl) who thinks that re-blogging photos from their parent's basement on a MacBook that they didn't buy with their own money is "being an activist" when in reality they have probably never gone to a protest, fundraiser, or meeting for any social justice organization and probably never will cause any civil change in their lifetime. Similar to a "Facebook Activist" a la the Kony 2012 viral video.
A Tumblr Feminist will also post pictures of themselves naked or half-naked on the internet and claim it is "art" and attack any person who talks about their body (despite the fact they posted their tits on the internet).
A Tumblr Feminist will also post pictures of themselves naked or half-naked on the internet and claim it is "art" and attack any person who talks about their body (despite the fact they posted their tits on the internet).
"Amy is a total Tumblr Feminist, one time she wrongfully accused that guy of rape just to get some twitter followers."
by Muumuu House December 21, 2013
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The feminatzi took over the intercom advertising a magazine publisher for
feminine routine instructions targeted towards young men.
feminine routine instructions targeted towards young men.
by Chef Rat October 7, 2019
Get the feminatzi mug.A feminist who will yell at you at the top of her lungs and will yell “this man just sexually hasrassed me” for and get mad at every little comment that you say even if it’s not a direct comment.
{Dude, come watch this video of a butthurt feminist!}
Dude: it’s Hugh Mungus
Feminist: Humongous what?..
Feminist: Humongous what?
Dude: Hugh Mungus
(This same old B.S.)
Feminist: Is that sexual harassment?
Dude: No, it’s Hugh Mungus.
Feminist: Why would you say that to me?
Dude: ‘cause that’s my name!
Feminist: What? Humongous what? Is that what you did when you said that to me?
(On and on...)
Dude: it’s Hugh Mungus
Feminist: Humongous what?..
Feminist: Humongous what?
Dude: Hugh Mungus
(This same old B.S.)
Feminist: Is that sexual harassment?
Dude: No, it’s Hugh Mungus.
Feminist: Why would you say that to me?
Dude: ‘cause that’s my name!
Feminist: What? Humongous what? Is that what you did when you said that to me?
(On and on...)
by RDSbruh February 20, 2018
Get the butthurt feminist mug.The feminist movement has become a joke and laughing stock that has become much too political resulting in the movement currently going nowhere despite good core intentions.
A real feminist, unlike the new idea of 3rd tier feminism, is a person of either gender who wants to "define, establish, and achieve political, economic, personal, and social equality of sexes. This includes seeking to establish educational and professional opportunities for women that are equal to those for men." these people- contrary to the bad rep the new age feminists get- are people who don't feel rage or hatred or superiority to men, simply someone who wishes to be represented as an equal. So, in conclusion, a feminist is not a man-hater, merely a person who believes in, and fights for equality.
(an example of a fake feminist)
Fake feminist: "men are all evil!!!"
Real feminist: "we need to stand up for ourselves and make sure we feminism in society!"
fake feminist: "feminists are meant to hate all men!"
real feminist: "feminists are meant to fight for their rights, stand up for unfair treatment of women, and fights for equality."
(an example of a fake feminist)
Fake feminist: "men are all evil!!!"
Real feminist: "we need to stand up for ourselves and make sure we feminism in society!"
fake feminist: "feminists are meant to hate all men!"
real feminist: "feminists are meant to fight for their rights, stand up for unfair treatment of women, and fights for equality."
by lei-li November 3, 2018
Get the A REAL feminist mug.Women who are opposed to feminism because they believe the movement stands for negative goals and whose activists most often tend to be a toxic group of people.
Anti-feminist women often believe in equality but are not open to perpetual and often professional victimhood. They believe in responsibility for individual choices and often oppose special treatments for women, in any shape or form.
They also believe that true equality encompasses men as well, and that women's liberation was as much the result of men's support as much as the women who asked men to accommodate them. They believe that similarly extending empathy and understanding to men, instead of villainizing them and creating gender wars, is more of a noble and constructive goal.
Anti-feminist women often believe in equality but are not open to perpetual and often professional victimhood. They believe in responsibility for individual choices and often oppose special treatments for women, in any shape or form.
They also believe that true equality encompasses men as well, and that women's liberation was as much the result of men's support as much as the women who asked men to accommodate them. They believe that similarly extending empathy and understanding to men, instead of villainizing them and creating gender wars, is more of a noble and constructive goal.
Anti-feminist women are often slut-shamed and objectified and derided by feminists as ass-kissing men for not following their cult... but that's okay since feminists' hypocritical behaviour is actually justifying their anti-feminist beliefs.
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Anti-feminist women believe that feminism is a cult and that equality is better served in a less toxic and bigoted movement.
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Anti-feminist women believe that feminism is a cult and that equality is better served in a less toxic and bigoted movement.
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