A sadboy or a sodftboi (softboy) is a person (usually in their teens 13-19) who cries about their problems instead of fixing them.
You rarely see one, because they lack social interaction and rarely go outside their own homes.
In case you haven't, here's what they look like: They will usually wear informal clothing, like an oversized hoodie, hoodie without hood, hoodie without zipper... Etc. The type of music they listen to is a form of music that is catchy to listen to, but you wouldn't be caught dead doing so; a mix of ukulele and sad singing and more recently, sad rap.
They often times spend their time on the popular messaging app discord, mostly going on socialization and dating servers. They spend their time in the voice rooms the server provides, often times faking panic attacks and speaking with a tired monotone. Strangely enough, they will be in a relationship with somebody, but since they don't socialize very often, 9 times out of 10, it's online (On the aforementioned app Discord).
A more ancient equivalent to the "sadboy" is the emo, and in many ways they're similar, but the "sadboy" is a more modern take.
You rarely see one, because they lack social interaction and rarely go outside their own homes.
In case you haven't, here's what they look like: They will usually wear informal clothing, like an oversized hoodie, hoodie without hood, hoodie without zipper... Etc. The type of music they listen to is a form of music that is catchy to listen to, but you wouldn't be caught dead doing so; a mix of ukulele and sad singing and more recently, sad rap.
They often times spend their time on the popular messaging app discord, mostly going on socialization and dating servers. They spend their time in the voice rooms the server provides, often times faking panic attacks and speaking with a tired monotone. Strangely enough, they will be in a relationship with somebody, but since they don't socialize very often, 9 times out of 10, it's online (On the aforementioned app Discord).
A more ancient equivalent to the "sadboy" is the emo, and in many ways they're similar, but the "sadboy" is a more modern take.
by Fuckshitassdick February 21, 2021
A type of emotional abuser who uses his/(her) emotions, whether real or fake, to manipulate their SO to do things for them or remain with them.
1: Dude, Jared told Melissa that if she broke up with him, he'd kill himself.
2: Oh geez, that's dangerous sadboi stuff.
2: Oh geez, that's dangerous sadboi stuff.
by Mhmsoc May 23, 2018
A young teen that is very depressed. But also listen to firme oldies. Get very angry for stupid reasons. Also a gangster name. “SadBoy” is a male that can fight. Tried his best to keep a relationship if it doesn’t work the male would do anything to get that young lady back. Smokes a lot of wax,weed, and crack. Can never take a joke.
ese1. Aye ese look at that foo across the shit.
ese2. Aye that the home SadBoy. He’s always depressed but listen to some firme oldies.
ese2. Aye that the home SadBoy. He’s always depressed but listen to some firme oldies.
by Adrian.p March 31, 2018
Sadboi Hours is a time where Sadbois are emotional and can express their feelings with other present Sadbois. While the official time for Sadboi Hours is 1 AM to 4:59 AM, anytime can be Sadboi Hours if you try hard enough.
by What's Good My Guys March 23, 2018
by Tokyo tommy March 18, 2018
by David_kinoko October 09, 2021
In a failed relationship/friendship: It is when a guy gives a woman a guilt trip for his malicious doings. Someone with Sadboi Syndrome manipulates people and always try to turn things around and act like they are the victim. Especially when exposed, they tend to act like they're suicidal to put a stop on women sharing their horrible experiences with them. The things that these guys do include cheating, manipulating, sexual harrassment and even rape.
Trigger warning:
Girl: He used me and cheated on me! I cannot allow this! This has to come out!
Friend: Go friend! Let everyone know! You do not deserve these things he had done to you!
Girl: He even had the guts to say he's done with his life and that he wants to die!
Friend: What an asshole, he definitely has Sadboi Syndrome!
Girl: He used me and cheated on me! I cannot allow this! This has to come out!
Friend: Go friend! Let everyone know! You do not deserve these things he had done to you!
Girl: He even had the guts to say he's done with his life and that he wants to die!
Friend: What an asshole, he definitely has Sadboi Syndrome!
by _kasai April 15, 2021