A phrase used by lesbian or gay referring to who is dominant, who is 'a top'. a top = on top, the pleasure giver.
"I told him/her that i wanted to please him/her to their every sexual desire, they replied" I do it the opposite way, im a top."
by justwantstopleazu June 17, 2009
by MrHosk May 30, 2018
by christopher January 20, 2004
The more dominant one in sex, or the one giving the sex. The stereotype for a top is more intimidating, and stubborn.
by sleepyquesarito January 24, 2020
Slang term used when refering to a blowjob. Originates from New York City and is actually an acronym for "Tounge On Penis"
by R-kIVe July 22, 2005
by kevin1337 April 02, 2009
I really DON'T like taking huge cocks up my ass since I'm a top, but I'll shove my cock into a receptive hole when offered.
by dicklicker May 23, 2003