when 2 people have all of the traits a relationship has,but aren't labeled boyfriend and girlfriend.and they are free to date whoever without consequence,unless you agree to other terms.
Shayne:Want to be friends with benefits?
Cayley: Sure but what are out terms
Shayne:we can date outside of this,but we still do relationship like stuff.
Cayley: Lets start now.
by oblowi March 11, 2011
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When 2 friends r attracted 2 each other in a sexual way but neither wants the committment of a relationship. the 2 usually care for each other tho.
After hooking up with him, i knew that our relationship would never be anything more than friends with benefits.
by advice.giver June 10, 2006
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In most teenagers this means to have all the qualities of being in a relationship with out the actual commitment. Like holding hands, kissing, hanging out, sometimes even sex. without the actual title "boyfriend" "girlfriend"
Friend: Is that your boyfriend/girlfriend ?

You: No he's/she's just a friend.

Friend: Why were you kissing your friend ?

You: friends with benefits
by yootinaa August 15, 2015
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a friend with whom you may occassionally "hook up" or make out with, etc etc, and may do so without worries about commitment.
Friend: "I heard you made out with Josh...do you like him? Are you going out? Because I thought you were just friends"


You: "Nope. We're just friends with benefits, is all. We're not together or anything."
by steph April 2, 2003
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When you do everything that a couple does including Sex , kissing , cuddling .. ect. With a close friend, but having no title calling you an actual couple.
Me and Vanessa are Friends with Benefits , We act just like a real couple but we’re just friends.
by Niyaaxxo July 5, 2018
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friends who do couple things like hugging and kissing and holding hands but aren't in an official relationship. They can make their own boundaries for the "relationship" and agree to them as they choose.
"Are Ranae and Christopher dating?"
"No, they're just friends with benefits"
by Ireland Ranae September 18, 2017
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it's when you don't want a serious relationship but you want him / her as your toy to fuck around with.It also can be when she / him are already in a realtionship but you like that person so he/she agrees to be your friend with benefit.
Your brother is hot but already has a girlfriend so we agreed that I'll be his friend with benefit.
by AshleyPe December 18, 2006
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