Rape - forced
sexual intercourse including penetration (oral, vaginal, anal), mainly by men on women (90% of the cases), using either physical strength, threat, or surprise. This is the
legal definition.
I think the dumb guys - i doubt they are girls - who
try to be funny about it, or look manlier than they are should shut up.
I also think that it is not accurate to say that rape "destroys your own life", as it is written in some other definitions. It is possible to overcome this. Girls can be warriors, they can be strong. The only reason why they often endure severe traumas is that men, and all the rest of
society, after having raped them, humiliate them, say they're lying, or make fun of them, when they dare speaking out loud about this. This is the reason why so many girls never tell about it, and feel guilty about it. Men feel guilty, and are scared that girls might refuse to be raped, and
bite their dicks off, so they teach them that THEY are the guilty ones when they get raped, that THEY actually LIKE what is happening to them, and that they should feel dirty about it, because they are sinners and temptatresses (i don't have a clue if that word exists or not, english is not my mother language, sorry).
"you're so fuckin' goddamned full of rape, but does that mean my body must always be a source of pain ?
Hey do you believe there's anything beyond troll
guy reality ? I do, I do, I do"
(lyrics from the riotgrrrlpunk song "I like
fucking", by Bikini Kill)