Short for 'Venomous Feminist'. Often used to describe women and men who are poisonous and hostile toward the masculine. They suppress male sexual desire for women by looking more gender neutral, not wearing make up and not using deodorant. They open their mouths and spew poison by repeating liberal talking points. #metoo #mybodymychoice and they tell women to not have sex with men until they can guarantee that abortion remains legal. They erroneously believe that 'toxic masculinity' is a a real thing. They also believe that it's 'their right' to kill unborn children.
Men should stay far away from VemFems as they are selfish and men will tend to do whatever they say for sex!

Popular vem-fems include Jennifer Wright, Cecil Richards, Gloria Steinem

Circa 2018.
A Vem-Fem tells men how toxic their masculine actions are, like not really listening when berated, for not doing girl things with them or opening a door for a female..
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some stupid danish tongue twister that all Dane’s can do, the challenge is you have to say it as fast as possible without messing up the words
Person 1: Fem flade flødeboller på et flat flødebolle fad
Person 1: Fem flade flødeboller på flat flølebolefad
Person 2: Haha! You messed
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A fem lesbian that looks mean and badass and is but is a big sweetheart
Yea that girl over there is a pitbull fem.
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a bisexual afab person who no matter what they do or wear still is clocked as feminine. they are normally handy and stronger than they look. incredibly hot to everyone because of how confusing their gender expression is.
Look at those levi cut offs and button up shirt
Oh, they’re total a utility fem
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A queer woman with dark hair who will look like an Angel but completely mess with your mind
She won’t stop falling for dark-haired fems even though it never ends well
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"Charlie's in her fem dom era." -Olivia Robinson 2023
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A fictional gender that started in the bl fan fiction community. In the fan fiction community a fem-male is described as a male with dominantly female features and a uterus past they're prostate. Basically a guy with both male and female reproductive organs inspired by hermaphrodites... This fictional gender is mainly used for writing mpreg or male-pregnancy fanfictions
"How is he pregnant" y/n asked her friend as she saw pregnant male pass her in the hallway "oh he's a fem-male, they have a uterus and are able to get pregnant" her friend replies nonchalantly
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