Fem

A Female

“Bro your fem is getting on my nerves”

by EXTINCT6IX November 7, 2023

Femming

Femming (verb) – The act of making yourself appear or behave in a more feminine way, whether in style, mannerisms, or attitude.

“Bro’s femming it up with that outfit.”
"You were busy femming all day."

by rksslol August 23, 2025

Fem

Fem urban slang for a non-disposable vape

Sam asked John to pass the fem

by Earlmeister January 17, 2023

fem-male

A fictional gender that started in the bl fan fiction community. In the fan fiction community a fem-male is described as a male with dominantly female features and a uterus past they're prostate. Basically a guy with both male and female reproductive organs inspired by hermaphrodites... This fictional gender is mainly used for writing mpreg or male-pregnancy fanfictions

"How is he pregnant" y/n asked her friend as she saw pregnant male pass her in the hallway "oh he's a fem-male, they have a uterus and are able to get pregnant" her friend replies nonchalantly

by WhiteRaven1 June 7, 2022

L1 Fem

Level 1 Fem who doesn't know what shut the fuck up and become a man means.

Can you please stop being a fucking L1 Fem?

by Astonishingly Dumb February 20, 2024

Fem Puppeteering

The act of a female manipulating a man to do their bidding and or what they want.

guy: i want to watch spider man with my hbs
girl: *bats eyes* you can go ahead but i personally think you should stay with me.
guy: *now debates what he should do and ultimately chooses to her*
she has successfully pulled off fem puppeteering

by yktxkyohh July 29, 2025

Vem-Fem

Short for 'Venomous Feminist'. Often used to describe women and men who are poisonous and hostile toward the masculine. They suppress male sexual desire for women by looking more gender neutral, not wearing make up and not using deodorant. They open their mouths and spew poison by repeating liberal talking points. #metoo #mybodymychoice and they tell women to not have sex with men until they can guarantee that abortion remains legal. They erroneously believe that 'toxic masculinity' is a a real thing. They also believe that it's 'their right' to kill unborn children.
Men should stay far away from VemFems as they are selfish and men will tend to do whatever they say for sex!

Popular vem-fems include Jennifer Wright, Cecil Richards, Gloria Steinem

Circa 2018.

A Vem-Fem tells men how toxic their masculine actions are, like not really listening when berated, for not doing girl things with them or opening a door for a female..

by InTheKnowMe July 4, 2018