Paul started hangin' out with that theatre crew cuz there were tons of women and nothing but gay men...tryin to get that proxy trim.
by snopes08 July 02, 2006
The situation when someone (man1) is Miteshing someone else (man2) as they themselves have just been Miteshed. Usually involves the offloading of work from man1 to man2.
man1 (after a Miteshing): Too much work! Better offload....
man1 Miteshes man2
man2: Damn! I just got a Miteshing-by-proxy!
man1 Miteshes man2
man2: Damn! I just got a Miteshing-by-proxy!
by unknown_male_486645 June 24, 2011
guy 1: hey she gives good head
guy 2: dude, you just gave rory a blowjob by proxy
guy 1: wtf?
guy 2: yeah, she gives lotsa guys BJs
guy 2: dude, you just gave rory a blowjob by proxy
guy 1: wtf?
guy 2: yeah, she gives lotsa guys BJs
by reality checker February 17, 2012
A gay person who remains friends with a homophobic person in attempts to improve their view of sexuality and gay people
Julius: I’ve been a proxy gay for Peter for a while now
Geoff: I think Peter is a lost cause
Julius: I can get through to him
Geoff: :/
Geoff: I think Peter is a lost cause
Julius: I can get through to him
Geoff: :/
by Zhango101 April 02, 2021
The idea that you are entitled to having relations with a specific girl simply because your brother, cousin, best friend, co-worker, fraternity brother (or sorority sister, if that so happens to be your thing), or roommate hit it.
"His little brother in the fraternity called me 'cutey'"
"Why!?"
"I don't know! It was weird because we've never actually spoken."
"Maybe he thought he could get pussy by proxy."
"Pussy by proxy?"
"Yeah, his big brother probably told him that he hit it, so now he wants to as well and thinks it will be easy because he's his little."
"Awkward"
"Why!?"
"I don't know! It was weird because we've never actually spoken."
"Maybe he thought he could get pussy by proxy."
"Pussy by proxy?"
"Yeah, his big brother probably told him that he hit it, so now he wants to as well and thinks it will be easy because he's his little."
"Awkward"
by Cutegirl33 November 28, 2011
To be excited by the object of ones unrequited desire's cruelty to loved ones or third parties as a means of personal subjugation.
To enjoy the cruelty of the powerful over the powerless when powerless yourself.
To enjoy the cruelty of the powerful over the powerless when powerless yourself.
When the one you can't have insists on being cruel to the one you've got, and you cum in your pants? That's not even masochism, it's masochism by proxy.
by Rick.T.Urbane April 23, 2015
by Kputzer March 02, 2018