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a valid excuse for boys to act gay around each other
"Ayo bro I just kissed my homie goodnight"
"It's not gay if it's with the boys"
by raphael_1254 September 10, 2022
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This is often used by straight people who are ingnorant to gays and don't really understand the meaning of what they're saying. Some people take it seriously, while others blow it off. "That's so gay" is another way to say "That's so retarded"
"Dayum! Did you see what he did? That's so gay!"
by Jassssooonnnn July 4, 2009
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A disrespectful way of showing dislike to something. Usually used by teenagers. Also a way to make fun of gay people, or LGBT+ people in general.
Example 1:
Teen 1: Hey look at my new shirt I got
Teen 2: That's so gay

Example 2:

Teen 1: *accidentally bumps into Teen 2*
Teen 2: That's so gay
by Killtro22 June 5, 2019
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A subtle expression of disbelief at someone being totally blind to the self-delusion in what they've just said.

Echoes the sound of "That's OK then", and is usually used ironically.

It's not homophobic, but is a response to people saying things like "I slapped DeepHeat (Ralgex, Wintergreen, ...) on my mate's wedding tackle. It wasn't gay because it was in the showers after football practice".

See, eg, Flap Jacks for further examples.
A: I just ran someone over in the street, but it doesn't matter because they were already in a wheelchair.
B: Well, that's not gay then.

Politician: Military deaths in Afghanistan/iRaq have reached X, but civilian deaths don't count.
Political commentator: That's not gay then.

A: I 69'ed my mate yesterday, but it wasn't gay because we both spat it out.
B: Actually that was a bit gay of you. Nearly as gay as a treeful of parrots. You couldn't get much more gay without donning a backless gimp suit and chaining yourself to a lamp-post outside a gay nightclub in Gayton at closing time.

A: I gimp-suited up and handcuffed myself to a lamp-post, but it wasn't gay because I was drunk, and anyway I had my fingers crossed at the time.
B: 'Nuff sed.
by Mathilda Underfoot February 8, 2010
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Mostly used by homophobic and/or ignorant people or persons to describe something that is unappealing or "uncool". Usually used about something feminine if about or on a male or something masculine on or about a female, rainbows or the colour pink associated with a male.
"Did you see Johnny's shirt? That's so gay!"
by Serenadeanb December 6, 2014
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A negative and ignorant way to express how one feels about something they dislike, think is wrong, or don't care for.

Thus it would be the same as a rascist person calling a black person a "Nigger".

(Not "Nigga" which is a way to address a friend, which white people should be careful saying).

SO STOP OR DO NOT EVER SAY IT!!!
1) "That's so gay my property taxes are going to be $9,000 this year"

2) "That's so gay the bar didn't have Grey Goose."

3) "Dawg, That's so gay the price of gas keeps going up."
by Bleached White Boy March 1, 2010
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1. A critique or description of an event given by a person who lacks the capacity to contribute anything meaningful to most any dialogue; usually due to their lack of education, neanderthal brain cavity, and/or obsession with all things "gay".

2. A term most often used by closeted youth to avoid appearing too intelligent, too fashionable, too artsy, too worldly. Individualism here is not important, in fact it's discouraged. Fall in easily with your dumb ape male or amazon female mates and just refer to everything as "That's so Gay!", other than each other of course.

3. May also be shortened to simply "Gay." Thus eliminating the need to think or add additional words to a perfectly hoser comment.
Example 1: Rodney dresses well for school; his mates say "That's So Gay!"
Example 2: Chuck has an intelligent thought; his mates say "That's So Gay!"
Example 3: Brian watches a YouTube video about an opera singer and responds "GAY.", thus assuring himself that he is not suffering from sexual disorientation.
Example 3: Laura is just a young, impressionable, though not very bright youth. Laura sees a dog with a red collar and says aloud "That's So Gay!", then realizes that she too is wearing a red collar because her trailer trash boyfriend put it on her the night before whilst doing it "doggy style", and whilst thinking about his best friend Chad ... "That's So Gay!"
by warmbrother November 9, 2013
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