fluffing

Using an excessive preamble to set the stage and therefore manipulate for a simple, straightforward request. The person making the request is the fluffer and the recipient of the request or the person being fluffed.

"I know you're probably not going to like this and I most likely don't deserve it and I know I've promised to not ask again, especially since I just asked yesterday, but could I borrow the car for one more trip to town, whereas the person responds with, quit fluffing me.

by paperjam February 5, 2019

Fluffing my oats

When someone or something is getting you all agitated.

Republicans are really fluffing my oats these day's

by BigGCount February 23, 2017

Fluffing up the bagel

Its basically just making your pussy wet and talented for bed

"Are you fluffing up the bagel darling?" My husband that is 6 feet and has a 9 inch dick said

by 99peopleinaroom September 12, 2020

Fluffed up

The antonym of F***ed up. A mistake that benefits the recipient.

They fluffed up my order and gave me an extra sandwhich.

by Dogoncouch December 8, 2023

fluffing the drapes

When a woman let's a real heater of a fart go and the pressure of tight pants causes air to pass between her labia giving them a little jiggle.

Good lord what was that sound? Just spring cleaning and fluffing the drapes for later big guy.

by Marshall362 September 15, 2023

Fluffing

Fluffing can can be thought of as an "emotional fucking".
It's a mix of sensual touching, or sensual touching and words affirmation with a focus on making the person you're fluffing melt as much as you can.
It's like petting someone, but you're metaphorically petting both the heart and the body at the same time.

"My partner spent a whole hour fluffing me last night, I just melted right away and forgot all about my fears and worries. I felt so happy and content and fulfilled. Being fluffed makes me feel so loved and precious and special and cared about. I want them to fluff me again, like right now. I need it."

by TheRealFluff November 13, 2020

Self-Fluffing

When you constantly stroke your own ego by bragging & showing off in an unsolicited manner or overly patting yourself on the back.

I didn't ask dude showed me his paycheck stubs but he was busy self-fluffing and just had to show me how much he makes...

by ODGumby23 February 11, 2021