Calling one person a settler in a relationship is talking shit about the relationship. These are the same hypocrites that would call somebody else a homewrecker for doing the same with their life.
If two people are happy together, in the end leave them alone and don't worry about their physical appearances. They are with each other for their own reasons, quit talking shit about males and who is a settler for any male because somebody rejected you in life.
Thinking you're a nice carefree person when you're part of the problem.
Old example: Little-House-On-The-Prarie-type European settlers going west to "Put in a solid day's work and carve out a new life" while being part of the mass genocide of Indigenous Americans.
New example: People moving away from California because they "Couldn't stand it anymore" and ruining the property values and job markets of their new location while transplanting the California-style politics they claim they were getting away from.
1. "I just want to promote healthy living and calm to the people I meet on social media"
"Your lifestyle is funded by your sugar daddy using child labor at off-shore factories Caitlyn, you got a real settler's mentality"
2. Instagram models advocating for mental health while their income comes from an app destroying people's mental health is some serious settler's mentality.
3. Bro you can say you support Black Lives Matter but if you keep voting for officials who defend bad cops that's just settler's mentality