the tendency (usually attributed to lesbians) to become the same person. They start wearing the same outfits, doing everything together, essentially becoming the same person at the horror and disgust of their friends.
Alice: Have you seen Dana and Tanya, they are wearingthe same outfit in similar colors.
Shane: must be the urge to merge.
the term used in the gay community for the presumed tendency lesbians have of quickly moving together after dating for a short period of time. See U-haul lesbian.
Although not unique to lesbian couples, this behavior is stereotypically attributed to lesbians.
The comedian Lea DeLaria joked:
Based on the writer Margaret Cribere, who was known for her P.O box where she accepted fan-mail from reader's telling their own wild stories. She lost credibility in her work later in her career and was defamed.