vanilla 

Unexciting, normal, conventional, boring.

Vanilla, a bit like this definition.

vanilla by hmm November 6, 2003

vanilla 

n. The opposite of kinky. Not in any way involved with BDSM.

He was a little more vanilla than I was used to, but we got along fine anyway.

vanilla by Bad Grammar Must Die April 16, 2003

Vanilla 

Not kinky

Cameron is vanilla

Vanilla by Herzleid September 17, 2015

vanilla 

A member of the boring sexual majority, that has no idea of the raging sexual party of fetishes and swapping that whirls around them.

When we walk up the street from the BDSM dungeon to get to the swinger's party, let's tone down the sexual talk and groping, we don't want to scare all of the vanillas on the sidewalk.

vanilla by CaptCook February 16, 2014

vanilla 

It's the original of something, like the original Ice Cream flavour. In computergames the original game is called classic or vanilla when the expansion comes out.

vanilla by Liedtke March 13, 2003

Vanilla 

Preferring an activity or thing in its basic and unmodified state. Refers to vanilla ice cream. Used when expressing a preference for having something the traditional way.

I like my burgers vanilla, no mayonnaise or bacon for me please.

Sorry, threesomes just don’t do it for me. I’m vanilla like that.

Vanilla by KJR September 4, 2005

Vanilla 

normal and boring sex.
used by more sexually adventerous people kinked to describe the dull sex had by the unimaginative

he's so vanilla he probably thinks leaving the lights on is dirty.

Vanilla by Sunshine December 13, 2004