Melinda is the opposite of judgefull, if there was a definition of it in the dictionary, if would be a picture of her crossed out. That's how much it isn't her.
A word made up to mean to be judgemental of someone, usually by those people who have lived in dark cupboards all their lives and never knew the actual word is 'judgemental'.
Fogey/fogy /fougi/ sl. (early 18C+, orig. Scot) old-fashioned, stuck-in-the mud.
Person with old fashioned ideas which he is unwilling to change: Come to the disco and stop being such an old fogey!
You think me an old fogeyand an old tory, his thoughtful voice said. I saw three generations since O’Connel’s time. I remember the famine. Do you know that the orange lodges agitated for repeal of the union twenty years before O’Connel did or before the prelates of your communion denounced him as a demagogue? You fenians forget some things. (James Joyce, Ulysses. PenguinBooks,1992. p. 38)