This term mainly refers to white women that are tricked by black
men with an inferiority complex into believing that they prefer white women to black women. They date these black
men and are brainwashed into thinking they are better than black women. These women are usually obese and insecure and as a result of not meeting the weight standard of white
men in their community go over to the black community to compete with black women for black
men. This gives them a false sense of importance and relevance. They believe that because they possess white skin that black
men will treat them better than they treat black women. But they are met with a rude awakening when they find out that they got the same black
man that black women get. They support the black men financially, are left single moms to half black children then take to social media, i.
e.
TikTok, to complain about their their deadbeat black baby daddies. This type of black
man is typically described as a struggle dusty therefore the "preferred" white woman is a struggle preference.
Struggle preference: "
Oh, my God, Becky.
Tyrone is treating me the same way he treated his
ex black girlfriends. He doesn't pay child support for our three daughters and he never visits them!"
Becky: "Wow. That is totally insane. I thought he said you were, like, more submissive and feminine than his black girlfriends..."
Struggle preference: "I know, right?! He made me think I was better. I'm starting to think it was all a lie. I feel used. I believed him so I supported him financially for two years while was unemployed!"
Becky: "So, okay, I didn't want to tell you this before you guys broke up but I totally saw him kissing a black girl at Six Flags while you were away visiting your
parents in Vermont...while you were pregnant!
Struggle preference: Goes on
TikTok to complain about the struggle
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