Similar to an ultimatum, but one where the answer is truly "maybe" to both possibilities. In most cases an ultimaybe is much harder to deal with than an ultimatum due to it's confusing unanswerable nature.
Person A: You should really go to the dance with your girlfriend instead of that really pretty girl you're not actually in a relationship with.
Person B: But... I could be...
Person A: Doubtful.
Person B: Huh... this is an Ultimaybe. I'll never know what the right choice was, ever.
When you think you are giving an ultimatum, but there are really a whole lot of answers you will accept.
Person A: "I totally gave Bob an ultimatum yesterday when I said that he has to choose between me and his girlfriend, but he said he chooses us both, so we're all good."
Person B: "So it's really more of an ultimaybe."
church hurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the church hurt that was inflicted on me as a child.
when you're holding up your phone and making faces at it, as though you are taking a selfie, but you're really taking a picture of the person across from you or the wall or anything else that seems interesting but you don't want to be caught dead taking a picture of.
This action is often made more convincing by wiggling the eyebrows or opening the mouth, to pretend you're trying to get a Snapchat filter to work.