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1) Looking up someone you don't know very well on Myspace and messaging them when you didn't have the sack to talk to them in person. Related to tomfoolery.

2) Messaging someone on Myspace you have seen around in real life, but never met.
Elizabeth engaged in tomstalkery by messaging Andrew.
by abm19470 August 01, 2007
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