A derogatory term referring to a person, typically female, who purposely sabotages situations for his/her own personal gain and/or amusement.
1)“Becky brought me some cupcakes, even though she KNOWS I’m on a diet.” “She is such a sabotwat!”
2)“Alex told the boss that she saw me at the Giant’s game on the day I called in sick.” “She knows I’m up for a promotion, what a sabotwat!”
3)“I had just met this hot guy at the bar and we were having drinks when this female walks in with her big fake boobs, mini-skirt and prostiboots and sits right next to him. After that, it was like I wasn’t even there. What a fucking SABOTWAT!”
when you're holding up your phone and making faces at it, as though you are taking a selfie, but you're really taking a picture of the person across from you or the wall or anything else that seems interesting but you don't want to be caught dead taking a picture of.
This action is often made more convincing by wiggling the eyebrows or opening the mouth, to pretend you're trying to get a Snapchat filter to work.
The grindset is a contemporary ideology of self-exploitation disguised as strength, deeply tied to the aesthetics of the “sigma male” and to new digital forms of patriarchy. It promotes the idea that human worth depends on productivity, economic success, absolute emotional control, and the ability to work endlessly, turning vulnerability, rest, community, and tenderness into signs of weakness. Beneath its rhetoric of discipline and power often lies a profound inability to relate healthily to pain, fragility, and human interdependence.
“That’s the grindset, brother. While weak men sleep and complain, sigma males stay disciplined, work in silence, suppress emotions, and build power while everyone else wastes time chasing comfort.”