Similar to the phrase "get yo ass whooped" or other things said to imply a loss in video games, sports, etc., to have your cheeks ran means that you have taken a significant L. Run them/those cheeks simply means to come and receive your loss.
I heard you said you could beat me in 2k? Run them cheeks.
or
Yeah, I played that new DBZ fighting game the day it came out. I got my cheeks ran.
church hurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the church hurt that was inflicted on me as a child.