PBAR stands for Post Band Automatic Response. PBAR is a medical condition that’ affects current or past band members. The reactions include getting and screaming “set” after 3-2-1 is yelled, dropping everything your are doing when the snare part of the Caisson song is played, etc..
Someone screamed 3-2-1, early and I got set. My PBAR has messed with me today.
church hurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the church hurt that was inflicted on me as a child.