oxendate Share definition Flag (1) a word meaning to lick a taint. (2) a date with a fat girl by a doucherette Patrick M. likes to oxendate. He licks that taint all day long. Patrick likes to oxendate a lot. oxendate by Twiggers March 15, 2007 0 0 Get merch Get the oxendate mug. Buy Now — $32.95 See more merch