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(n) the qualities that make a person different from the group
Her otherness made the cool people want to get to know her better because she was mysterious, but her otherness made the close-minded people alienate her from the group.
otherness by I'm Not LIke You Guys December 4, 2020

Botherness 

the adjective for bother, to bother someone, to be bother by someone, to always bother someone.
She only likes us because of our botherness
Botherness by Sammy(; April 5, 2010

overness 

Overness: (Noun) 1. The state or quality of being completely emotionally free of a significant other after a breakup or a dumping incident. 2. A sense of peace that encompasses the heart when the mere thought of an ex-somebody no longer induces feelings of loss, pain, sadness, vomiting, or keying of car paint, and, in fact, only stirs a fond memory or two, instead. 3. A mythical state or quality actually only achieved through insanity or death or by getting thee to a nunnery or monastery and finding God in the power of ascetic silence, Gregorian chants, and itchy robes.
"I have finally achieved overness from the governess, with whom I had a long and passionate affair in the west wing."

"You had better be achieving 'overness' from reading that particular author with whom you had a five year affair, or I'll go apeshit on your self-pitying alabaster ass."
overness by Richard Allan Cooper November 1, 2008

overness 

1.Term used by African-American urban transsexuals and gays to say a transsexual woman can pass as a natural born female. The most notable reference to the word is in the 1991 documentary film "Paris Is Burning".

2. Can also be used much like the slang term "cool" to describe something as good or desirable.
1. Miss thing is the overness.

2. That dress is the overness.
overness by AkuaRising April 5, 2008

olderness 

having more age
She looks like she has some olderness.
olderness by hi-i-am-human March 16, 2022

otherpersonsdickphobia 

Where you are afraid to touch another guys penis.
I have the phobia of another persons dick where someone could be like "GIVE ME ALL YOUR MONEY AND YOUR HOUSE KEYS OR I'LL TOUCH YOU WITH MY PENIS!" Then I'll give them my car, house keys, wallet, and wife
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countrypolitan 

Term used to describe someone who is a mix of both rural (country) and urban (metropolitan) lifestyles/upbringings. He/she is typically equally comfortable in both settings and is able to seamlessly slip back and forth between the two, appreciating the characteristics of each.
That ol' gal of mine drives the 12 lane freeway during the week and a John Deere on the weekends. She likes opra and the Grand Ol' Opry. I love them countrypolitan women.
countrypolitan by MOChick November 7, 2006
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Witch Bath 

A bath consisting of a variety of slats, oils, soaps or any other added ingredients such as fruits, milks, herbs or any other spices for health or beautifying benifits.
She brought home alot of stuff and took it to the bathroom. She must be taking a witch bath.
Witch Bath by carnieboy30 October 26, 2020
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kinktober 

An excuse for people to write porn with different types of kinks throughout the month of October.

Smut Fanfiction
That chick doesn't write often but when she does, its for Kinktober.
kinktober by Kinkiest July 12, 2018
Word of the Day on October 30, 2026

proper lad 

a lad that is such a lad that he is a proper lad
person1:did you see bob
person2: ya he was a proper lad
Word of the Day on October 29, 2026
The number of years you are still sexually active
While our lifespan is the number of years we will live, our healthspan is the number of healthy years we will have and our sexspan is is the number of years we will continue to be healthy enough to continue having an active sex life.
sexspan by Dr Kat April 21, 2022
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