1. Any female whom your wife, girlfriend, or female friend is disapproving of. 2. A girl or woman who, under other circumstances (i.e; if you were with your male friends) you would consider to be a hottie, but since you are with your wife, girlfriend, or female friend, you have to act as if she is too slutty or a ho. 3. Someone who really digs ho's.
"Look at that short skirt and no bra- she sure is a HO-DIGGER!"
church hurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the church hurt that was inflicted on me as a child.