When a person makes overtly obvious attempts to befriend others in an effort to avoid confrontation. Friendly Bobbin' is usually done out of fear and is ultimately perceived as a form of submission. (Sai-en Gant definition)
They got on yo ass and now you Friendly Bobbin' so you won't get yo ass whooped again huh!?
church hurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the church hurt that was inflicted on me as a child.