Flare Up 

The closest feeling to an orgasm without penetration. This is usually caused by sexting, phone sex, or seeing a very attractive individual.

Ahhh damn, you just gave me a flare up

Flare Up by galina-xox December 6, 2010

Flare-Up 

When you really want fuck someone but the feeling comes and goes.

I really wanted to fuck him. I mean really badly. The feeling kind comes and goes. It's just a flare-up.

Flare-Up by Mommymillker.com November 12, 2021

Flare-Up 

When you want to fuck somebody and the feelings come and go.

"I really wanted to fuck him. I mean really badly. The feeling kind comes and goes. It's just a flare-up."

Flare-Up by Mommymillker.com November 12, 2021

flake up artist 

Someone who is noncommittal or agrees to everything but then never shows up and therein flaky. So flaky to the point of being almost professional in the practice of it. A professional flaky person. Hence, flake-up artist.

e.g.

Ben: "Liv! We haven't met up in ages!! Fancy meeting up this weekend? I'll be in your neck of the woods any how so we should deffo meet up for a crafty drink! You down?"

Liv: OMG! Ben!!! YES. We gotta do this! Bell me when your here and I'll come down!

(24 Hours passes and Ben arrives at agreed location)

Ben: "Hey Liv, I've just arrived! Where abouts are you?

Liv: ...

Ben: "Liv? Are you en route??"

Liv: ...

Ben: Fml....

Liv you are such a flake up artist...

flake up artist by SecularBen January 9, 2017

flame-up

A contraction of "flare-up" and "flaming" (as in homosexual). Briefly becoming very attracted to the same sex, perhaps only while under the influence of drugs or alcohol. In other words, a straight person having a gay moment, or a gay person having an EXTRA-gay moment.

Girl A: "I thought Emma was here with Dave."
Girl B: "She is."
Girl A: "Then why is her tongue down Megan's throat?"
Girl B: "Oops - looks like another flame-up. She had one of those at last year's sorority mixer."

flame-up by aladdinabu January 25, 2011

flame it up 

to smoke marijuana

Friend 1: 'You got any kush?'
Friend 2: 'Yeah dude let's flame it up!'

flame it up by MazDilly April 30, 2019

Grindset

The grindset is a contemporary ideology of self-exploitation disguised as strength, deeply tied to the aesthetics of the “sigma male” and to new digital forms of patriarchy. It promotes the idea that human worth depends on productivity, economic success, absolute emotional control, and the ability to work endlessly, turning vulnerability, rest, community, and tenderness into signs of weakness. Beneath its rhetoric of discipline and power often lies a profound inability to relate healthily to pain, fragility, and human interdependence.

“That’s the grindset, brother. While weak men sleep and complain, sigma males stay disciplined, work in silence, suppress emotions, and build power while everyone else wastes time chasing comfort.”

Grindset by Omega-Male May 22, 2026