Emo isn't about the look at all, it's started to be now but many are just posers, emo is an old music genre-an offshot of punk/post hardcore. But since some lazy reviewers have started calling pop-rock emo it's got worse.

Self expression features heavily and is a good thing to do esp. through art, poems and songs. The "Self-harm" can be for various reasons; a common one is distraction from emotional pain because for all physical pain emotionally it can be so much worse. Others, due to a fragile state of mind need to be reminded that the're still alive in a droning and all-to-painful world.

But if you really think it's about fashion (well the streo-typed fashion); i'm a guy with long blonde *curly* hair, not emo, i wear whatever i feel like and never vans etc., not emo, i hate streo-typed emo music,not emo.
So yeah, after all that i'm known as an emo, i don't label myself as due to stereo-types i am many things-none of which are emo.
Look around. Emos may not look how you look just accept society.
by Malekithe January 22, 2008
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Ian Vens' "I'm not emo but I look and cry like it so I can get attention" attitude.
Ian Vens. emo
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by Someone in Iowa December 12, 2005
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1. a genre of music. Originally was short for emotional hardcore. Since the arrival of Sunny Day Real Estate, it became less punk and more alternative.
2. a fan of emo music

Emo is NOT cutting yourself
Emo is NOT goth
Emo is NOT metal
Emo is NOT punk, it's a DERIVATIVE, otherwise MCR's debut was punk since it sounded a lot like Rites of Spring
Emo was reinvented by Sunny day real estate, and had then an alternative rock/indie sound. Jimmy eat world had a pop punk sound. Dashboard Confessional had an indie sound. American football had an indie sound. Also, if emo must sound punk, then why is Sunny day real estate called emo?
Emo is NOT dead
If emo is Jimmy eat world and the get-up kids, then how is emo supposed to be ultra obscure and have only no more than 99 fans?
Emo is NOT jeans and a hair fringe
Emo is NOT all-black clothes, big black "shock-value" makeup worn by like Marilyn Manson or Alice Cooper
Emo is NOT depressive
Emo changed and was reinvented
Emo evolved into other music
Emo is simply alternative/punk influenced music with emotional lyrics.
Emo is NOT scene. (Scene is Breathe Carolina and Dot Dot Curve)
Emo is NOT self-harm and suicide.
Emo is short for emotional hardcore. Despite it now is shortened for emotional. But stick to referring to music and fans.

Emo is like Sunny day real estate, thursday, get up kids, texas is the reason and matchbook romance.
Emo bands: My Chemical Romance (at least try their debut), Thursday, Rites of Spring, From First to Last, Sunny Day Real Estate, Jimmy Eat World, The Used, Embrace, The Hated, Underoath (not the first two albums), Dashboard Confessional, Funeral for a Friend, Senses Fail, Paramore, Fall Out Boy, American Football, Indian Summer, Silverstein, Pg 99, Loud?, Circle Takes the Square, I Hate Myself, The Saddest Landscape, Plain White T's, The Get Up Kids, Weezer, Red Jumpsuit Apparatus, Moss Icon, Matchbook Romance, Brand New, Orchid (not the metal band), One Last Wish, Texas is the Reason, Hawthorne Heights, Taking Back Sunday, Jawbreaker, etc.

Not emo: Black Veil Brides, metal music, Motionless in White, Vampires! Everywhere, Of Mice & Men, Design the Skyline, Bring Me the Horizon, Bullet for My Valentine, Avenged Sevenfold, Green Day, Aiden, AFI, Blink-182, Good Charlotte, Asking Alexandria, In Flames, the Misfits, The Cure, Murderdolls, As I Lay Dying, Simple Plan, Devil Wears Prada, Make Me Famous, Cannibal Corpse, Minor Threat, Attack! Attack, Trivium, etc.
by e9d8e2yh9d8yd92 July 8, 2013
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emo is not only a way of dressing its a way of living...
emo=emotional,and not afraid of expressing these emotions.
people who hate emos are just bitter and have no real reason for hating us at all.
there are so many stereotypes about emos that arent even true!

not all emos have an emo fringe!
not all emos are bisexual or gay!
not all emos slit their wrists!

people who stereotype are ignorant and they usualy have never even met any emos.

some things me and other emos i know wear:
*drainpipe jeans
*converses
*polka-dots
*stripes
*checks
*pumps
*band tshirts and hoodys
*studded belt

emos usually listen to 'emo/screamo' bands like lost prophets and from first to last.
people who say they hate emo music usually havent even heard any!
they just judge it because its 'emo' and they think everything 'emo' is crap.

i know what i'm talking about because i am emo and i have spoken to loads of people who say they hate emo and when i ask them if they know any emos the usual answer is 'no' and they have usually never even listened to any emo music at all they just decided to hate emos for no reason, just to be stupid, people who hate emos are usually preps/chavs/jocks/scallys and norms even some metalheads.

emo haters should get a life
and my opinion is that emo rules!!
emohater:eww i hate emos
me:why
emohater:coz you slit your wrists and pretend u hav problems and u listen to shit music
me:hav u ever even met an emo??
emohater:no but ive heard about u people
me:ok hav u ever listened to any emo music
emohater:no, why wud i? its all shit!
me:ur just ignorant
emohater:ur just a dumb emo
by <3_laura_<3 November 11, 2006
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used to be: lonely or sensitive people that wanted to express themselves and look differently and found their own way

now: a fake subculture that people will label you as part of if you have thick-rimmed glasses and/or dark hair (natural or died)
hey stupid people, those pics you put up their are not emo NO MATTER HOW HARD YOU TRY TO COVER THE ABERCROMBIE LOGO ON THAT SHIRT
by REAL emo&proud April 20, 2007
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People who cut themselfs because they hate their life or are sad. Being emo is a serious medical issue and shouldn't be joked about because people actually do cut themself when they're in a stage of depression. If you see cuts on someones wrists try to help them and if you're emo please seek attion because people love you.
Being emo makes you think a knife can relieve pain.
by kittycatxoxo July 6, 2010
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someone who is depressed and (a few) find relief in cutting themselves. Emo guys (contrary to popular belief) are not always gay, they are just ppl that have it hard. although sumtimes u dont see their issues, or evn if u've known the person for a while, and they all of a sudden change.

They are just ppl trying to deal with the hardships of life.

leave them be.

ps. im not an emo writing this, i just have emo friends
person 1: dude, look that emo fag!

person 2: (evil glare)
by parafreak August 20, 2010
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