user (n.) - a person who uses a friend or aquaintance
solely for the purposes of gaining a type of advantage;
whether it be:

1) when no one else is around, they need
someone (like you) to take them places

2) someone who doesn't include you in any activities that they have
with their friends, who you too, are friends with, yet
YOU would invite him or her in a heart beat

3) a person who completely ignores you when he or she
is with a group of people who may be cooler than you

4) a person who can call you ANYTIME and you would be there for them,
and yet if you try to call him or her, they will not pick up;
however, ONLY for using purposes he or she would pick up,
like if he or she needs a RIDE somewhere (yet they would pick up
their phone for any other person)

5) a person who constantly gives you excuses...when you know he or she is completely full of SHIT

and even after all this, this person still calls you their "friend"
Lianna was a user to Charlie because she felt, why not?
by Charlie D. September 2, 2005
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Someone who takes advantage of another's kindness or generosity. They pretend to be a friend but are only in it for what they can get out of it. A user takes and takes, rarely gives.
After so & so repeatedly failed to live up to his word I wrote him off as a user.
by free2Bme May 21, 2017
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A person who will only talk to you when they need something.
"Peter Cooke only texted me when he needed my notes to revise from, he's such a user"
by Jessthegreat May 20, 2016
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A person who is only nice when he needs something.
Joe is a total user. The guy is only nice when he needs something.
by Mr. Dillon Dollar Man December 25, 2012
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someone who toys with anothers emotions just to recive what they desire from that person
turned out cody was just a user
by Kagome_1274 July 28, 2006
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People that are similar to players, but do not just fuck the chick but first abuse emotions to make them feel like they messed up after they get fucked n dumped. twisting used person's emotions around.
tyler: "hey JC, did u see collin, he fucks a different chick everyday"
JC: "ya, he's such a user
by Nosomeness July 24, 2012
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Person who is nice to someone else to gain an advantage
SHe used him to get an A in the class.
by Bart March 24, 2004
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