A word derived from the words stud and femme used in the lesbian community to describe a woman who is boyish but in a very feminine way. Stemmes usually dress more feminine than their stud counterparts but are more butch than their femme counterparts.

Stemme, however, may be descriptive of how much emotionality and sensitivity a lesbian has versus how they choose to dress.

Stemme falls under the concept of androgyny as does stud, futch (a femme whose a bit butch), butch, soft butch, etc...

As far as femininity goes:

Femme>Stemme>Futch>Soft Butch> Stud

That stemme thinks she's so fly in her eyeliner, faux hawk and cons.

Stemme by KillaK September 6, 2012

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bummer slummer

a person who slums in other people’s misery

Any tourist who goes to a third world country merely to live in luxury for cheap, while abject poverty and hunger exist all about them, is nothing but an unprincipled bummer slummer.

bummer slummer by ΔиłĦ☼иצ ß€₡ʞ January 8, 2014

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Stemmy

A derogatory term specific to Broken Hill; used to insult or belittle someone you dislike.

You burnt the toast, you stemmy!

Stemmy by squadbhiz June 13, 2016

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