You have alot of friends, a girlfriend, not very bright and sometimes people take edvantage of you, but you still rock, man.
You can't be shafirin. there is only one shafirin.
church hurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the church hurt that was inflicted on me as a child.