patronizing

To speak to someone with apparent kindness, but with hidden sarcasm, or a hidden insult.

"Your SO good with everything, Abby, " said Trisha. That is patronizing.

patronizing by Hemera 🌺 January 8, 2015

Fat Patronizing. 

When you can't help but compliment overweight people on how they look and think they are beautiful or sexy, sexualizing them in any way including writing weight gain fiction, viewing them as 'aspirational' and reposting their onlyfans account content from twitter on your own page just because you have a thing for fat people.

yes, because that's how fat-shaming works, when you can't stop complimenting overweight people and think they're 'beautiful'. Uhh, that's Fat Patronizing.

Fat Patronizing. by MM132 February 22, 2024

Social Media Patronizing 

Social Media Patronizing: When you see someone in person and they say “I love your content” but they never actually comment on or “like” your posts or other content (depending on how the platform works) because they feel they’re better than, and don’t want the actual association.

That is social media patronizing.

Social Media Patronizing: Hey Mike, haven’t seen you in a while… omg, I LOVE following you on LinkedIn (but you know this person has NEVER engaged with you, not even a “like”).

This is a very condescending response from the person you haven’t seen in a while and claims they love to follow your content.

Social Media Patronizing by Ricardo Rico December 31, 2021

matronizing 

Acting in a kind fashion which belies a brutal, motherly and domineering intention.

"Gretel Killeen, the host of Australia's Big Brother, is the most matronizing person I know."

matronizing by beninakepi May 12, 2007

patroning 

(v.) to go hardcore drinking with your best bro and or bros

Mike: "Hey I heard you and Reinaldo went hard in the fucking paint this weekend?"

Alex: "Bro fosho, we went patroning every night... we got fucking shmacked!"

Reinaldo: "Yeah man it was raw as fuck!"

Mike: "WTF why did I have to work this weekend?!?!"

Reinaldo: "You obnoxious fuck"

patroning by laxbro18 January 26, 2012

Matronizing 

When a woman treats a man with an apparent kindness that betrays a feeling of superiority.

"If you are a good boy, ill make it worth your while!"

"Dont be so matronizing."

Matronizing by Jessesolo April 19, 2018

Patrionizing 

The act of a liberal group going way overboard to prove they are super, super patriotic in an attempt to sway moderate republicans away from voting for Trump.

When General Allan led a group of democratic delegates in a deafening 30 second "USA, USA" chant as some tried to chant "No more war" was an astounding display of patrionizing.

Patrionizing by BtothedamnK July 28, 2016