The opposite of albsexual. An attraction to black or dark skinned people. This attraction varies from person to person and whether or not it is a preference or a necessity. If it is a preference then it means that if one were to take interest in another person whom is not light skinned, then it is also because that person is willing to love another with a kind heart, even if he/she may have the opposite physical trait to this preference. *PLEASE NOTE: This does NOT in any way mean that one is racist. Just because a straight person or a gay person finds a specific gender attractive, does that make them sexist? No, it just depends on one's characteristic and personality.*
I'm melansexual but it's a preference, not a necessity because if a light skinned person with a kind heart asked me out, I would gratefully accept this request.
when you're holding up your phone and making faces at it, as though you are taking a selfie, but you're really taking a picture of the person across from you or the wall or anything else that seems interesting but you don't want to be caught dead taking a picture of.
This action is often made more convincing by wiggling the eyebrows or opening the mouth, to pretend you're trying to get a Snapchat filter to work.
FRIEND A: "Did you just take a stealthie of me?"
FRIEND B (turning phone around): "no I was just using snapchat's new filter, see?"
The grindset is a contemporary ideology of self-exploitation disguised as strength, deeply tied to the aesthetics of the “sigma male” and to new digital forms of patriarchy. It promotes the idea that human worth depends on productivity, economic success, absolute emotional control, and the ability to work endlessly, turning vulnerability, rest, community, and tenderness into signs of weakness. Beneath its rhetoric of discipline and power often lies a profound inability to relate healthily to pain, fragility, and human interdependence.
“That’s the grindset, brother. While weak men sleep and complain, sigma males stay disciplined, work in silence, suppress emotions, and build power while everyone else wastes time chasing comfort.”